I am exited to announce the release my fifth book, Improving Family Communication: 16 FHE Lessons on Christlike Communication. I had such a positive response to some FHE lessons I posted here on my blog about basic communication skills, I decided to expand on that idea and put them all in a book. There are lessons on eye contact, conflict management, listening, verbal communication, mental health, and more.
Don't you love the cover? The artwork is by a friend, Jeff Byrd. He did a fabulous job!
Currently Improving Family Communication is an ebook, but will soon be available in hard copy. The publishing of this book is a goal I have been working on for the past year, so I am excited to see it come to fruition.
Michaela Stephens of Scriptorium Bloggorium recently posted a great review, so if you are interested in learning more follow the link!
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Friday, June 1, 2018
Sunday, June 4, 2017
FHE: Christlike Attributes #3
Note: This month I am highlighting some of the Christlike Attributes lessons from my book MTC at Home. Although this book is primarily designed to help prepare future missionaries for service, the lessons--all based on Preach My Gospel (PMG)--work really well for FHE. Earlier lessons can be seen here. Want to receive notification of future lessons to be posted in this series? Like my Facebook page.
Additional
Resources: 1. Visit the website for LDS Charities (ldscharities.org)
and read the page describing “Why We Help”. Watch a few of the short videos on
Mormon Channel about service given through LDS Charities. 2. President Monson’s
speech in the 2010 General Relief Society meeting, “Charity Never Faileth”,
discusses the importance of not judging others. 3. “The Coat: A Story of
Charity” is a children’s story taken from the life of Heber J. Grant. A
beautiful cartoon version (2:08 min.) of the story can be viewed on
themormonchannel.org.
Christlike Attribute #3: Charity
and Love
Purpose: To
illustrate the importance of developing charity and love for all.
Scripture: “And above all things have fervent charity among yourselves: for charity
shall cover the multitude of sins” (1 Peter 4:8).
Hymns: “Have I Done Any Good” (Hymns no. 223), “As I Have Loved You” (Hymns no. 308)
PMG Quote: “When you are filled with charity, you obey
God’s commandments and do all you can to serve others and help them receive the
restored gospel” (p. 118).
Key Term: Charity
– “The highest, noblest, strongest kind of love, not
merely affection; the pure love of Christ” (BD).
Lesson: The
“first and great commandment” is to love God, while loving our neighbor is the
second (see Matt 22:36-39). From these commandments it is clear the importance
of developing love and charity is one of the highest priorities of life on
earth. In fact, the prophet Moroni taught that without charity we “are nothing”
(see Moroni 7:46).
We can gain love for God and charity for mankind through prayer
and service to others. Latter-day prophet George Albert Smith was born to a
family devoted to loving God and others. From his youth he was an extraordinary
example of love and charity. President J. Reuben Clark, said of President
Smith: “His real name was Love. … He gave his love to everyone he met.”[1] Once, George A. arrived at home in
winter without his coat. His wife, noticing he was chilled and shivering, asked
him why he did not wear his coat, only to learn he had given it to a man in
need.
“Let us evidence by our conduct,”
President George A. Smith encouraged, “By our gentleness, by our love, by our
faith, that we do keep that great commandment that the Savior said was like
unto the first great commandment, ‘Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself.’”[2]
Exercises: Prayerfully
select one or more of the following exercises to supplement the lesson.
Ñ Teach: Explain virtue in your own words why it is important to pray for and develop charity.
Testify: Describe a personal experience or feelings
you have about the importance of loving and serving others.
? Invite: Practice inviting
those you teach to make commitments related to exercising charity (i.e.,
giving service, expressing love, etc.).
® Role Play: Use the following question to role play a
gospel discussion with a friend or family member. “What are some good ways to show love to strangers?”
Open Your Mouth: In the upcoming week, start a gospel
conversation with someone by asking them, “How
would you define virtue?” Probe to learn what specific behaviors they feel
are necessary to lead a virtuous life.
Activities:
Arrange a simple service
project for FHE. Help weed a neighbor’s yard, take a treat to someone new,
write a letter to a missionary, or visit someone who is ill or lonely.
[1] Teachings of Presidents of the Church: George Albert Smith,
2010, 11
[2] In
Conference Report, Apr. 1949, 10
Sunday, May 28, 2017
FHE: Christlike Attributes #2
Note: This month I am highlighting some of the Christlike Attributes lessons from my book MTC at Home. Although this book is primarily designed to help prepare future missionaries for service, the lessons--all based on Preach My Gospel (PMG)--work really well for FHE. Want to receive notification of future lessons to be posted in this series? Like my Facebook page.
Additional Resources: 1. There are numerous conference talks on hope, including “The Infinite Power of Hope” by Dieter F. Uchtdorf (October 2008), “The Joy of Hope Fulfilled” by M. Russell Ballard (October 1992), and “Brightness of Hope” by Neal A. Maxwell (October 1994). 2. A poem, “Hope”, was published in the September 2010 Friend magazine. 3. “Good Things to Come” is a Mormon Channel video based on a personal story about hope told by Jeffrey R. Holland.
Purpose: To
demonstrate the importance of living life with the optimism of hope.
Scripture: “Wherefore, whoso believeth in God might
with surety hope for a better world, yea, even a place at the right hand of
God, which hope cometh of faith, maketh an anchor to the souls of men, which
would make them sure and steadfast, always abounding in good works, being led
to glorify God” (Ether 12:4).
Hymns: “The
Light Divine” (Hymns no. 305), “Hope
of Israel” (Hymns no. 259).
PMG Quote: “Hope is an abiding trust that the Lord will
fulfill His promises to you. It is manifest in confidence, optimism,
enthusiasm, and patient perseverance” (p. 117).
Key Term: Hope
– “The confident expectation of and
longing for the promised blessings of righteousness. The scriptures often speak
of hope as anticipation of eternal life through faith in Jesus Christ.”[1]
Lesson: In 1859, the British ship Alacrity
encountered dense fog while transporting Latter-day Saint pioneers between
South Africa and Boston. Visibility was extremely low, and the Saints, fearing
for their lives, prayed and fasted for divine assistance. Because he was unable
to navigate the ship by the stars, the captain climbed to the top of the mast
to search for an opening in the fog. Suddenly the mist cleared long enough for
him to see sandbars off of Nantucket, straight ahead. He had just enough time
to change the ship’s course and avoid disaster.
The miracle experienced by the
Saints on the Alacrity is one of many inspiring stories of those who crossed
oceans and plains in their hope to reach Zion. Despite tremendous afflictions,
including sickness, malnutrition, exposure, and exhaustion, most pioneers
remained optimistic and determined. This
type of attitude is what Nephi described as “having a perfect brightness of
hope.”
Hope,
a trait deeply entwined with faith and charity, is what helps us to look past
our daily difficulties toward a happier future. Hope increases with the
nearness of the spirit and is important because it helps us trust in the Lord
while enduring to the end. Those without hope struggle through trials and often
give up. President Ezra Taft Benson taught that hope is an anchor to the souls
of men. Those with deep and abiding hope will see “divine pattern and purpose”[2] no
matter what trials or blessings life may bring.
Exercises: Prayerfully
select one or more of the following exercises to supplement the lesson.
Ñ Teach: Explain the principle of hope and why it is
important.
Testify: Describe a personal experience or feelings
you have about having hope in Christ.
? Invite: Practice inviting
those you teach to make commitments related to having hope (i.e., repenting).
® Role Play: Use the following question to role play a
gospel discussion with a friend or family member. “Why is it important to have hope?”
Open Your Mouth: In the upcoming week, start a gospel
conversation with someone by asking them, “How
do you maintain hope with all the bad things happening in the world?” Probe
to learn what specific behaviors they feel are necessary to build hope in
Christ.
Activity:
Place several household objects (e.g. key, pencil, small
toy, etc.) inside separate socks. Tie a knot in the top of each sock or secure
with a twist tie. Give each family member a pen and paper. Pass the socks around,
allowing each person to feel the contents. The player writes his/her guess of
what is in each sock. Show the contents of the socks after everyone has written
down their guesses. Remind family members the scriptures tell us to have “hope
for things which are not seen, which are true” (Alma 32:32).[3]
Additional Resources: 1. There are numerous conference talks on hope, including “The Infinite Power of Hope” by Dieter F. Uchtdorf (October 2008), “The Joy of Hope Fulfilled” by M. Russell Ballard (October 1992), and “Brightness of Hope” by Neal A. Maxwell (October 1994). 2. A poem, “Hope”, was published in the September 2010 Friend magazine. 3. “Good Things to Come” is a Mormon Channel video based on a personal story about hope told by Jeffrey R. Holland.
Sunday, May 21, 2017
FHE: Christlike Attributes #1
Note: In the upcoming month I thought I would highlight some of the Christlike Attributes lessons from my book MTC at Home. Although this book is primarily designed to help prepare future missionaries for service, the lessons--all based on Preach My Gospel (PMG)--work really well for FHE. Want to receive notification of future lessons to be posted in this series? Like my Facebook page.
Additional Resources: 1. For smaller children, use the Sunbeam manual lesson 13 and it’s coordinating picture to tell the story of Elijah in more detail. 2. Mormon.org has a frequently asked questions (FAQ) page, including member contributions, dedicated to the topic of faith. 3. Finding Faith in Christ is a feature film about doubting Thomas; it is available to watch online in the media library of lds.org. 4. Relevant musical selections include “Go Forth with Faith” (Hymns no. 263) and “Faith” (CS 96).
Faith in Jesus
Christ
Purpose: To
review fundamental principles required for having faith in Christ.
Scripture: “His lord said
unto him, Well done, thou good and faithful
servant: thou hast been faithful over a few
things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy
lord”
(Matthew 25:21).
PMG Quote: “When you have faith in Christ, you believe
in Him as the Son of God, the Only Begotten of the Father in the flesh. You
accept Him as your Savior and Redeemer and follow His teachings. You believe
that your sins can be forgiven through His Atonement” (p. 116).
Key Term: Faithful
– To live in a manner that is steadfast in love and loyalty
to the gospel of Jesus Christ.
Lesson: When
the people of Israel began to worship idols, the prophet Elijah went to King
Ahab and declared there would be no rain or dew on the land until the people
repented. During the long drought Elijah was commanded by the Lord to hide by a
brook off of the river Jordan. Elijah was told he would be able to drink from
the brook, and that ravens had been commanded to bring him food so he could
survive. The scriptures indicate Elijah simply “went and did according to the
word of the Lord” (1 Kings 17:5). Elijah’s profound faith in the Lord helped
him survive and stands as an example to follow.
As demonstrated by Elijah, living with faith brings great
blessings. Having faith in Christ helps us to trust in Him, utilize the Atonement,
and be more obedient. Those who live by faith are inspired to action based on
promptings from the spirit. The faithful are led to accomplish great things in
their own lives and to bring good to others.
Heavenly Father encourages His children to increase their
faith. We can do this by first, choosing to believe in the Savior and His love. Second, asking
for His help through regular, daily prayer. And third, thinking about Him and
regularly studying the scriptures.[1] Elder Theodore Tuttle taught, "We're
not going to survive in this world, temporally or spiritually, without
increased faith in the Lord-and I don't mean a positive mental attitude-I mean
downright solid faith in the Lord Jesus Christ.”[2]
Exercises: Prayerfully
select one or more of the following exercises to supplement the lesson.
Ñ Teach: Explain the doctrine associated with the
principle of faith.
Testify: Describe a personal experience or feelings
you have about exercising faith in Christ.
? Invite: Practice inviting
those you teach to make commitments related to having faith (i.e., praying or
paying tithing).
® Role Play: Use the following question to role play a
gospel discussion with a friend or family member. “How can I increase my faith in Christ?”
Open Your Mouth: In the upcoming week, start a gospel
conversation with someone by asking them, “How
do you define faith?” Probe to learn what specific behaviors they feel help
increase faith.
Activities:
Make a simple birdfeeder
to attract ravens. Tie a piece of string around the top third of a pinecone to
hang from a tree branch. Coat the outside of the pinecone with peanut butter
and then roll in birdseed. Press small pieces of dried fruit (e.g., cranberries
or raisins) into the openings of the pinecone. Be sure to hang it where it is
easy to see from a window.
Additional Resources: 1. For smaller children, use the Sunbeam manual lesson 13 and it’s coordinating picture to tell the story of Elijah in more detail. 2. Mormon.org has a frequently asked questions (FAQ) page, including member contributions, dedicated to the topic of faith. 3. Finding Faith in Christ is a feature film about doubting Thomas; it is available to watch online in the media library of lds.org. 4. Relevant musical selections include “Go Forth with Faith” (Hymns no. 263) and “Faith” (CS 96).
Friday, December 11, 2009
Blog Tour Stop 7

...a giveaway!
Hop on over there for another opportunity to win my book--but be sure to take time to read some of the posts there. Your day will be brightened as a result! I promise.Previous blog tour stops:
Brenda Anderson
Anne Bradshaw
Diapers and Divinity
Pulsipher Predelections
The Little Things From Our House
Heather Justesen
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
Great News!!
Great news to share with all of you: I just had an e-mail from my publisher that the manuscript I sent in a week and a half ago has been accepted for publication! I am so excited and grateful the work I put into it over the past year was good enough. I'd say a few fireworks seem appropriate right now :-)!
Now on to the rush of getting everything sent off to the publisher....
Friday, January 9, 2009
I am at Deseret Book!
Thursday, September 18, 2008
Another Book Review & Giveaway
Tara over on The Well-Rounded Woman recently posted a great review of my book. She has been testing out the August/September theme with her kids, so her review means a lot to me. Here is part of what she writes:
"Becky's concept is to make scripture reading visual, thematic, interactive, and fun for children. Each month features a theme and poster or display that includes small pieces for the kids to choose a daily scripture. My boys fight over who's turn it is, so we always do two…You could totally come up with these ideas on your own, but I would never have done it. Becky has done all the hard work for you, including the illustrations, background, and scriptures. To me the best part is that this book could grow with your children."
And in addition to writing the review, she is offering a giveaway of the book. Head on over to her blog if you want a chance to enter!
Thanks Tara!
PS, while you are over there, be sure to read her evaluations of Project Runway episodes this season. I love here analysis on each of the outfits and designers.
"Becky's concept is to make scripture reading visual, thematic, interactive, and fun for children. Each month features a theme and poster or display that includes small pieces for the kids to choose a daily scripture. My boys fight over who's turn it is, so we always do two…You could totally come up with these ideas on your own, but I would never have done it. Becky has done all the hard work for you, including the illustrations, background, and scriptures. To me the best part is that this book could grow with your children."
And in addition to writing the review, she is offering a giveaway of the book. Head on over to her blog if you want a chance to enter!
Thanks Tara!
PS, while you are over there, be sure to read her evaluations of Project Runway episodes this season. I love here analysis on each of the outfits and designers.
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
CD-rom Giveaway

If you are interested in possibly winning a free copy of my book on CD-rom, Pikes Pickles is holding a contest on her blog. In fact, she is having a WEEK of GIVEAWAYS (how fun is that!!). All you have to do is leave a comment on her blog--plus you can get extra entries if you mention it in a post on your own blog. So what are you doing still reading this?!? Get on over there and leave a comment! And be sure to visit her site every day this week to see the other great things she will be offering for her Giveaway Week... I know I will be!
Wednesday, August 13, 2008
How Corny Am I?

Scripture of the Day: Proverbs 3:9
Saturday, July 26, 2008
My First Book Review
"Rebecca Irvine's book, "Adventures with the Word of God," made me wish my grown children were babies again. What a wonderful tool to keep the spirit of the lord in our homes and to keep the lines of communication opened. The fun and creative activities are simple, powerful and just right for use in incorporating important memorable lessons into our busy lives."
Donna M. Brown
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
New Arrival!
Look what arrived at my house! A box of my books!

Scripture of the Day: James 1:25
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
The Countdown is On!
Thursday, May 29, 2008
Book Cover Design

In other matters, tomorrow I leave on vacation and will be gone through June 9. However, I have scheduled a few posts to come up while I am gone (including a Father's Day scripture study theme for June). I am hoping to find an internet cafe of two on my journey to post some pics of Paris and London, too. Au revior mes amies!
Scripture of the Day: H-26, 2 Nephi 9:23
Wednesday, April 9, 2008
Proof Reading
Yesterday I received an e-mail from Horizon/cedar Fort (my book publisher) with the first proof of my book to edit. I was so excited to see it--it had an ISBN number and everything!!! The fonts the typesetter has chosen are cute and it looks so professional. {Of course} I was flooded with work projects yesterday and {of course} the publisher wanted my edits asap. I put out a quick e-mail to a few great friends for their help in proof reading (thanks Heather and Becky!). In the end I was able to get the list of edits back to the publisher this morning. There was nothing terribly serious that needed fixing, so my baby appears to be developing fine. Here is a picture I drew for the President Hinckley's Be's chapter:
Scripture of the Day: 2 Ne. 31:17
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Wednesday, April 2, 2008
New Book Info!
Just a short, but sweet, post today. I am so excited! Yesterday I learned that the publisher of my scripture study book has decided to make my book available in 3 different ways: as a book alone, as a CD alone, and as a book/CD combo. I love this idea because it will make using it all the more convenient for all those busy moms and dads out there. Yeah for technology!
Scripture of the Day: 3 Ne. 27:20
Scripture of the Day: 3 Ne. 27:20
Tuesday, March 4, 2008
Beginnings
This is a new beginning for me, writing this blog of my experiences making scripture study work for my family of five. I must admit, getting scripture study in every day is still a challenge (probably always will be), and is definitely not always fun. But the rewards--both immediate and promised--are too great to pass up. So we trudge onward and I keep trying to find fun new ways to help my kids learn to love the scriptures and gain a testimony of the Savior.
As a disclaimer, I should mention I have a book being published this year with ideas for families and scripture study (Adventures with the Word of God: Making Scripture Study Fun for the Whole Family). It is a book of monthly, sometimes holiday, based themes to go along with scripture study. I have some new ideas, not in the book, that I am currently testing and would love feedback (if you feel so inclined).
So, this month's theme for my family is Heavenly Treasure. We are reading scriptures about things we should--or should not--place value on in this life. The scriptures are on the back of gold coins called Celestial Cents and we are placing them into a pot-o-gold.
Scripture of the Day: 2 Chron. 1:11-12 (treasure up wisdom and knowledge)
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